Sunday, March 20, 2016

GRE prep

I have a VERY specific memory of talking with a friend while attending BYU.  We were walking through the parking lot with the brick oven pizza place on the far south west corner of campus.  She was worrying about all the grad school stuff she need to do.  I very comfortably and confidently told her how happy I was that I would never have to take another test once I was done with my BA.  I was so sure that I would be a stay at home Mom/Grandma for the rest of my life.  She told me, oh, you should take the GRE now because it would be so difficult to prepare for it once you have been out of school for a few years if you change your mind.
Such wise words.  Oh, how I wish I could go back in time and take her advice. As I have been researching what I need to do to prepare for grad school, I am realizing that I need to study up on just about everything to get ready for it.
This article for preparing for the GRE suggests that you

  • Read algebra for dummies and geometry for dummies.  Many reasoning questions are based on these basic math concepts.
  • Use these Study tools from the people who created the test including sample questions, 2 full sample tests, math review and more.
  • Expand your vocabulary.  The vocabulary on the GRE is more difficult than the vocabulary used in the SAT.  The best way to do this is a life time of reading/ Reading your college text books.  (Dang, I've got some work to do.)
  • Take a difficult English course.  The GRE has 2 timed essays that make up about 1/3 of your score.  So having recently done an english course will help you do well on those important chunks of your test.
Ahhhhhh!  This is why I hate being ambitious.  I have to stretch farther than I think I am capable of.  I've been asking God what I can do now to prepare for what He wants me to do next.  I've learned what he wants me to do now, and I'm so nervous that I won't measure up.  I think it is just a big ploy to get me to pray more fervently ;)  
Okay big guy, you've got me.  I'm sure to be on my knees more often and for longer periods of time because I know I can't pass that test on my own.

As luck would have it, there is a GRE testing center in one of the towns we are currently house hunting it.  It says they offer the test year round.  Coincidence?  I think not.  

Saturday, March 19, 2016

My husband LOVES travel and adventures while I would be happy to be a homemaker in a home just like I grew up in and never move.  Just do gardening projects, and when I get tired of those move on to a bathroom remodel project, and when I got tired of that, paint the outside of the house, and when I get tired of that…

I have been struggling the past few years to find a way that we can honor oneanother's ideal lives, yet still be happy with our own life at the same time.  I fought him on this nomadic life style for SO long, but I just can't beat it out of him, and I am SO tired of fighting.  So I need to find a way to join in the fun.

For the past few months I have had the thought that I could get involved more with in the communities we live.  I really hate politics, but I think there is a lot of good that can be done without having to dig to deeply into hot topics and the whole arena of brides and blackmail.  My curiosity has lead me to University of Washington's Evan's School of Public Policy and Governance.  I NEVER had any delusions of grander to get myself a masters degree (I never even thought I would earn my BA degree), but I wonder if I could find some good in a nomadic life style by doing some good in all these communities, or watching more closely how these communities function and learning from them.

The Evan's School has a variety of areas to focus on (2 years full time) and even some mini certificate programs I could earn.  I want to document them here so I can come back to the info when I am ready to think about it more seriously.

I'm not sure what the future holds for me and Sam, but I think he has gotten a taste of this international thing and is hooked.  So International development with a Nonprofit Management certificate might be a good thing to work towards.  (SO NOT what I ever thought I would be doing in my life, but it would be amazingly rewarding.  And incredible to be able to take my kids with me on work trips)
I'm going to have to mull all of this over for a few months while I do some more research about funding options for military wives getting their education and such.  

Saturday, March 5, 2016

bracelet business # 1

My daughter is doing a guest post on my page today :)

Me and my friends are starting a bracelet making business. All of the money we make will go to charity and new materials. nothing is more than 300 pesos or 6.42 dollars 

this is our schedule

march: mabuhay house

April: smile


                                                june: orphanages

                                                july: the provinces
                                                august: homeless people

for further information or to place an order email 

b r i b l e e @ g m a i l . c o m

plea title the email 


Friday, March 4, 2016

family pictures
Every time I plan family pictures I always get a little anxious.  The idea of trying to do my make up, style my limp hair, tame my eldest's curly hair, get a flattering outfit to coordinate with the rest of the family, and hope that we all look happy is enough to make me want to hide and cry.  But my kids are so darn cute and my Hubby is handsome, so I try to not spoil the photo op with my anxiety attack.
We are doing family photos next month because our youngest is 9 months and we still don't have any professional photos of him.  (sorry, you are my 4th and we live in a foreign country.  But you're a boy, so you probably won't care anyway.)  

I normally freak out a few days before the shoot and buy every hair product in the drug store that I think will make my hair look 10 times thicker than it is, and a bunch of new make up that will make me look more like a model and less like myself.
I am going to try really hard not to do that this time.  Instead I have found some helpful info to help me feel more confident in my own skin and prepared for our big day.

advice for dressing pear shaped Women

Necklace shapes for a variety of necklines-This sheet makes me think that with all the high necks I wear as a Mormon, I should probably do some shopping for some long necklaces.  I don't have many.

tips on dressing a family for portraits

tips for make up in photographs

I can do this,
we don't have to go to the department store and all buy new clothes,
I don't need to buy every product on the shelf,
and the best thing I can do is go to the shoot relaxed and ready to play with the kids instead of being anxious.

I will repeat these things to myself many times over the next month.